Matthew 6:12 is Jesus asking God to cancel what we owe him, and in the same breath admitting that we have to cancel what others owe us. The verse links the forgiveness we receive from God with the forgiveness we extend to people who have wronged us. Jesus spoke these words as part of the model prayer in the Sermon on the Mount, so the prayer was given to his followers, the crowds listening on the hillside in Galilee.
Forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors.
Matthew 6:12 (WEB)
What Matthew 6:12 Means
The word “debts” is a picture of sin as an unpaid obligation. Each wrong we commit creates a balance we cannot settle ourselves, and we come to God asking him to wipe the account clean rather than demanding payment. Luke’s version of the prayer uses the word “sins,” which shows that Jesus was describing the same reality in a slightly different image.
The second half, “as we also forgive our debtors,” is the part that makes many readers uneasy. Jesus is not saying that God’s forgiveness is earned by our forgiving others, since grace is never something we purchase. He is saying that a heart which has truly received mercy will naturally pass it on, and a heart that refuses to forgive has forgotten how much it was forgiven. The verse does not promise that forgiving someone will make the hurt disappear overnight.
The Context of Matthew 6:12
Matthew wrote this Gospel for a community of Jewish followers of Jesus, and the Sermon on the Mount sets out how the kingdom of heaven shapes everyday practice: giving, praying, fasting, and handling money. The prayer sits in the middle of a passage about sincerity before God, where Jesus warns against praying to be seen by others. Prayer is meant to be a private, honest conversation with a Father who already knows what we need.
The verses immediately after the prayer (Matthew 6:14-15) are what give verse 12 its sharpest edge. Jesus restates the connection between receiving and extending forgiveness in plain terms, which tells us he meant this as a serious matter and not a poetic flourish. Reading verse 12 alongside those lines makes it clear that forgiveness is a central mark of a life lived under God’s rule.
Key Phrases in Matthew 6:12
Ephesians 4:32
And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
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Paul gives the same logic as Jesus but places it in the context of daily kindness and tender-heartedness within the church. Where Matthew 6:12 asks for forgiveness in prayer, Ephesians shows what that forgiveness looks like in ordinary speech and relationships.
Colossians 3:13
Bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.
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This verse echoes the pattern of the Lord’s Prayer by tying our forgiveness of one another to the forgiveness we have received from Christ. It helps readers see that the practice of forgiving is grounded in the gospel and not in a standard of human fairness.
A Short Prayer From Matthew 6:12
Father, I come to you knowing how much I owe and how often I have fallen short of what you asked of me. Forgive me the debts I have piled up through pride, carelessness, and unkind words. Help me to see my own need clearly so that I do not hold others to a standard I have never met. Where someone has hurt me, give me the courage to release them to you, even when the wound is still tender. Let the mercy I have received flow through my life to the people around me. Amen.
