Proverbs 3:29 tells you not to plan harm against the person who lives beside you, because that person is living peacefully and trusting you to do the same. The verse is a short wisdom saying from the book of Proverbs, and it is traditionally attributed to Solomon, the king whose wisdom the book honors. He speaks to a young person learning how to live well among others, and he speaks as a father would to a son.
Don’t devise evil against your neighbor, since he dwells securely by you.
Proverbs 3:29 (WEB)
What Proverbs 3:29 Means
The verse begins with a direct command: do not devise evil against your neighbor. The word “devise” is about planning and scheming, not only acting. Solomon knows that harm usually starts in the mind, in a quiet decision to hurt someone, long before any words or deeds follow. He asks you to stop that process at the root.
The reason he gives is that your neighbor “dwells securely by you.” That phrase describes someone who feels safe in your presence, who has no reason to be on guard against you. Their peace depends partly on your restraint. Solomon is not promising that people will always treat you well, and he does not say that every neighbor deserves your trust. He is describing what a wise person does with the power to disturb someone else’s safety.
The verse does not spell out every form of evil or every relationship it covers. It is a principle, and like most proverbs it works as a guide for character rather than a legal rule. It asks you to examine your intentions toward the people who live close to you.
The Context of Proverbs 3:29
Proverbs 3 is a set of counsel for the young, grounded in trust in the LORD. Just before verse 29, the chapter says that the LORD will be your confidence and keep your foot from being taken, and that you should not withhold good from those who are owed it. The verses that follow describe how an upright person lives differently from a crooked one. Verse 29 sits in the middle of a cluster of commands about how to treat other people justly.
This setting changes how the verse reads. It is not a stand-alone instruction about private grudges. It belongs to a larger picture in which fearing the LORD shows up in daily dealings: paying what you owe, speaking honestly, refusing to envy violent people, and refusing to pick fights without cause. Read this way, Proverbs 3:29 is part of a consistent portrait of a person whose faith shapes how they treat their neighbors.
Key Phrases in Proverbs 3:29
Proverbs 3:30
Don’t strive with a man without cause, if he has done you no harm.
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This verse continues the same thread by warning against striving with someone who has done you no harm. Read together, the two verses show that Solomon wants you to avoid manufacturing conflict as well as planning harm. Your relationships should be marked by restraint toward those who have not wronged you.
Romans 12:17
Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men.
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Paul’s counsel to the church in Rome echoes Solomon’s concern for how believers treat others. Where Proverbs warns against devising evil, Paul urges believers not to repay evil for evil. Both writers ask you to let your conduct toward others reflect a settled character rather than a readiness to retaliate.
A Short Prayer From Proverbs 3:29
Lord, you know the thoughts I keep to myself and the plans I sometimes entertain when I feel wronged. Search my heart and show me where I have started to scheme against the people who live near me. Give me the wisdom to turn away from those plans and the courage to speak honestly when there is a real problem. Help me to be a neighbor whose presence brings security rather than fear. Keep my hands and my mind on what is good, for your glory and for the good of those around me. Amen.
