This lesson teaches children that trusting God means leaning on Him instead of only on their own ideas, and that He will guide their steps. It works well for children aged 5 to 11 and takes about 20 to 30 minutes.
Big Idea
God is trustworthy, so we can trust Him with our whole heart and let Him guide us, even when we don’t understand everything.
Memory Verse
Proverbs 3:5
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding.
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Cup both hands over your heart as you say the verse. Then slowly open your hands out in front of you, as if you are giving your heart to God. Do this each time you say it together.
The Story: Proverbs 3 for Kids
King Solomon was a wise man, and he wanted his son to remember the most important lesson of all. He called his son to listen closely and not forget the things his father taught him. Those good teachings would help him live a long, peaceful life. Solomon wanted his son’s heart to hold on to kindness and truth.
Solomon warned his son about a big mistake people often make. People can think they are smart enough to figure everything out by themselves. Solomon said, “Don’t be wise in your own eyes.” Instead, the son should trust the Lord with his whole heart. Solomon said the Lord would make the path straight, which means God would help him know which way to go.
Next, Solomon talked about wisdom. He said wisdom is more valuable than silver or gold, and nothing you could want is worth more than it. Wisdom brings good things, like a long life, peace, and honor. Solomon described wisdom like a tree of life that brings joy to anyone who holds on to it.
Solomon also taught about doing good to others. He said, “Don’t withhold good from those to whom it is due.” If you can help a friend or neighbor, do it now, and don’t wait until tomorrow. Being kind and fair to people is part of walking in God’s way.
Solomon finished by reminding his son that God shows favor to people who are humble and honest. God is a helper to those who trust Him. Because of this, a child who follows God’s wisdom can lie down at night without fear and sleep peacefully.
Read It Together
Proverbs 3:1-2
1 My son, don’t forget my teaching; but let your heart keep my commandments: 2 for length of days, and years of life, and peace, will they add to you.
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Point out that Solomon calls his listeners “my son” and asks them to remember his teaching. Ask children what kinds of things their parents or teachers ask them to remember, and why those things help them.
Proverbs 3:11-12
11 My son, don’t despise the LORD’s discipline, neither be weary of his reproof: 12 for whom the LORD loves, he reproves; even as a father reproves the son in whom he delights.
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Explain that correction from God comes from love, like a loving parent who corrects a child. Help children see that being corrected is a sign that someone cares about them.
Proverbs 3:26
For the LORD will be your confidence, and will keep your foot from being taken.
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Show children that God is the one who gives us confidence and keeps us safe. Ask them to name a time they felt scared and think about how God can be their helper in those moments.
Talk About It
- What is one thing you know you can trust God to do for you?
- Why do you think Solomon said not to rely only on our own ideas?
- What does it look like to trust God with your whole heart in a normal school day?
- How can you show kindness to someone who needs help today?
- What do you think it means that God’s wisdom is like a tree of life?
Activity Ideas
Heart Path Drawing
You will need paper, crayons or markers, and a pencil. Have each child draw a heart in the middle of the page, then draw a winding path that leads from the heart to a bright place at the top. Ask them to write or draw one way they can trust God on each step of the path.
Trust Walk Game
You will need a open room and a blindfold or a sleep mask, or simply have children close their eyes. Pair the children up so one is the guide and one is the walker. The guide uses only spoken directions to lead the walker safely across the room, and then they switch roles. Talk afterward about how it felt to trust someone else to guide you, and connect it to trusting God.
Wisdom Jar at Home
You will need a clean jar, paper slips, and a pen. Each day for one week, have your child write down something they trusted God with or something kind they did for someone. Put the slips into the jar. At the end of the week, read them together and thank God for His faithfulness.
Teacher Notes
For adults, this chapter presents wisdom as a way of life rooted in the fear of the Lord. Trust, humility, honesty, and generosity are not separate duties but parts of one life that is aligned with God. The chapter also frames God’s discipline as an expression of his love, which can help adults understand hardship as something that God uses for good.
Be careful not to overstate the idea that trusting God guarantees a life without problems. Proverbs speaks in general patterns, and children should hear that God is faithful and guides us, not that He promises a trouble-free path. Keep the focus on God’s character and His presence with us.
A Prayer to Close
Dear Lord, we want to trust You with our whole hearts. Help us not to think we know everything, and show us the way You want us to go. Thank You for being kind, true, and always with us. Amen.
